Who can Become a Surrogate?Below are the requirements for being a surrogate:

● Between 21 and 37 years old● U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident● Have had at least one, full-term (37 weeks or later) healthy pregnancy and delivery● Maintain a BMI of 30 or below (We can work on this with you)● Smoke-free and drug-free for at least 12 months● No use of antidepressants in the past 12 months● No history of drug or alcohol dependency● Not currently receiving government assistance● Live in a safe and stable setting● Have the support of family members● No criminal record

Must be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident residing in a surrogacy-friendly state.

Prospective surrogates must be U.S. citizens or legal permanent residents to ensure a smooth, secure, and supportive journey for everyone involved. This helps protect both the surrogate and the intended parents by ensuring access to reliable healthcare and legal stability throughout the process. It also prevents any potential complications related to immigration status, allowing everyone to focus on what truly matters—bringing a healthy, happy baby into the world.
Surrogates must reside in states where surrogacy is legally allowed. If your state is marked as “Permitted” or “Proceed with Caution” on our map, you may be eligible to become a surrogate with Starlight Surrogacy.

Be Between Age 21-38 years old

We welcome surrogates between the ages of 21 and 38 because this age range typically ensures a healthy and safe pregnancy journey. Women in this stage of life are generally in their prime for carrying a baby, with the emotional and physical readiness needed to make this incredible gift possible. This guideline helps protect the well-being of both the surrogate and the baby while creating the best possible experience for everyone involved.

Have had at least one, full-term (37 weeks or later) healthy pregnancy and delivery

To ensure the safety and well-being of both the surrogate and the intended parents' baby, clinics ask that surrogates have experienced the joy of bringing a life into the world through at least one full-term (37 weeks or later) healthy pregnancy and delivery. This experience not only confirms the surrogate’s ability to carry a pregnancy but also reflects the incredible gift of nurturing and supporting a growing life to term, which is at the heart of this beautiful journey.

Living a healthy, stable and supportive environment.

Surrogates are expected to maintain a healthy and stable lifestyle. This means refraining from smoking and drug use, as these can greatly affect the baby’s health and the overall pregnancy outcome. Prioritizing regular physical activity and a nutritious diet is essential for both a successful pregnancy and overall well-being.
Emotional resilience and physical well-being are key, as surrogacy requires both mental strength and physical endurance. To ensure readiness for this journey, surrogates must undergo psychological evaluations, as well as drug and criminal screenings. These steps help confirm their preparedness for the process.

Have a Body Mass Index (BMI) Under 30

A healthy body is the foundation of a healthy pregnancy. For this reason, we kindly ask our surrogate mothers to maintain a BMI under 30, reflecting a healthy weight in relation to height. This helps minimize potential risks during pregnancy and childbirth, ensuring the well-being of both the surrogate and the baby, and supporting a positive outcome for everyone involved.

Have a Good Pregnancy History

We prioritize the health and well-being of our surrogates and the precious lives they help bring into the world. To ensure a safe journey, we kindly ask that our surrogates have a history of successful pregnancies, with no more than two c-sections or a total of five deliveries.